Myself and my partner have been living together for over 3 years.We both have good jobs and are both in our early 30’s.Ours was love at first sight and we knew right away we wanted to be together. We have a cute son to show for this.
6 months into our relationship and I found out that I was pregnant, I was already 7weeks gone and I didn’t know until my period refused to show up. On finding out, we were both not expecting it but glad it happened.
I was hoping for a girl and wanted her so badly because of the beautiful baby girl outfits I see on social media. He on the other hand was indifferent about the sex, he just wanted an healthy baby. At 27wks I had my first scan ( I didn’t do it earlier because I wanted an accurate gender reveal ). I found out I was having a boy and I wasn’t super elated. Please don’t judge me, it’s not like I wasn’t happy but you know when you are hoping for something and got something else so that joy was a bit reduced. I love my son, he is the cutest and has the coolest smile.
My handsome is 2 years old now and I have been trying to convince my boo to let us have another child ( hopefully a girl this time ) . My partner feels we should get married first , he would prefer to have another child within wedlock but considering the fact that we have been living together now for over 3 years and he is yet to pop the question, I am slightly disturbed that no 2 might not come.
Right now, all I want is another baby ( girl or boy ) , a baby sister or brother for my son . We both love and respect each other and marriage shouldn’t stop us from having a family. I don’t want to turn 40 and still be dealing diapers.